{"id":13068,"date":"2025-01-04T20:01:12","date_gmt":"2025-01-05T02:01:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/?p=13068"},"modified":"2025-01-06T17:52:47","modified_gmt":"2025-01-06T23:52:47","slug":"looking-for-the-silver-linings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/2025\/01\/04\/looking-for-the-silver-linings\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking for the silver linings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Of course I&#8217;m feeling kind of limited by my broken wrist one-handedness, but I&#8217;m looking for the upsides. And musing on which is worse, all the time I spent limited by my knee injury that dragged on for like a year and a half, on crutches, off crutches, on crutches again, followed by limited walking, but biking ok. Yay! Or is being one-handed worse.<\/p>\n<p>Cooking was easier with my knee, but I&#8217;ve been able to do quite a lot of stuff with right hand only. Like I was planning to make bacon &amp; onion jam as a condiment for cheese and crackers at the cookie party, and didn&#8217;t get around to it. I also over bought on the purple onions; I thought I hadn&#8217;t bought them and I really got them twice, so I had 5 large purple onions in the fridge. I gave three to Heike and Friday afternoon I made the bacon jam with one of the two I had left, and pickled the other one. The pickled onions are pretty though the jam looks awful and tastes good.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13071\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/dealingwithonions.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"488\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/dealingwithonions.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/dealingwithonions-338x450.jpg 338w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/dealingwithonions-113x150.jpg 113w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 488px) 100vw, 488px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>While listening to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.setlist.fm\/setlist\/jeff-tweedy\/2025\/largo-at-the-coronet-los-angeles-ca-7b5f9a84.html\">Jeff Tweedy show at Largo at the Coronet in L.A.<\/a> that his wife livestreamed (or part of it anyway) and his kids came out to sing the last couple of songs.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13072\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13072\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13072\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tweedys.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tweedys.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tweedys-242x450.jpg 242w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/tweedys-81x150.jpg 81w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13072\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Tweedys<\/p><\/div>\n<p>If there is a silver lining, it should be that I have more time because there&#8217;s a short list of stuff I <em>can&#8217;t<\/em> do one-handed, like volunteer at the food pantry and go to my Tuesday yoga classes. Technically since I&#8217;ve retired, Tuesdays and Fridays are my free days but in the fall lots of busyness took over. I mean things are supposed to be quieter in the winter anyhow. I was expecting more free time now. But I had plans for the free time, like getting reacquainted with my sewing machine and starting some projects, but that&#8217;s on the can&#8217;t-do list too.<\/p>\n<p>Not to mention the one that\u2019s breaking my heart &#8211; no granny daycare till I have two hands or at least closer to two hands. Probably either early- or mid-February. I\u2019m hopeful that I\u2019ll get a new cast when I have my follow up visit this coming Tuesday and I\u2019ll be able to do more.<\/p>\n<p>Jasper came over for a short day on New Year\u2019s Day and Mark was around so we had three hands between us. We managed but afterward I knew I couldn\u2019t really manage an active 2yo one handed. Sigh.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a couple of pictures from (or related to) Jasper&#8217;s last regular day here, December 20th.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13092\" style=\"width: 498px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13092\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13092\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jasper12-20-24.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"488\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jasper12-20-24.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jasper12-20-24-338x450.jpg 338w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jasper12-20-24-113x150.jpg 113w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 488px) 100vw, 488px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13092\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Using a sifter like the dinosaur bone hunters in the book on the chair. I took it back to the library yesterday because it&#8217;s due Jan. 8 &amp; don&#8217;t think he&#8217;ll be over before then<\/p><\/div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13091\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jaspercookingset.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"488\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jaspercookingset.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jaspercookingset-338x450.jpg 338w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jaspercookingset-113x150.jpg 113w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 488px) 100vw, 488px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After his music class that&#8217;s right on Monroe St. we took cookies to a friend who works at Orange Tree Imports, and I bought him a cooking set because he <a href=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/cookingfing2.jpg\">enjoyed the whisk on a prior day<\/a>. I tried to get hm to say whisk but it was &#8220;cooking fing&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13090\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jspercookingset.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"540\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jspercookingset.jpg 540w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jspercookingset-374x450.jpg 374w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/jspercookingset-125x150.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the whole set. The day we bought it we used the brush to brush icing on some slice &amp; bake cookies. Later for snack I showed Jasper how to eat peanut butter off the purple knife. When Al came to pick him up I told him I&#8217;d taught his son an important life skill: how to eat peanut butter off a knife. At lunch on New Year&#8217;s, I got out the peanut butter and Jasper remembered and asked for more peanut butter, so I got out the purple knife, and told him he was now ready for college. College eating anyhow.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I can go for walks and drink coffee. Guess that&#8217;s something. And I can still type, so maybe more blogging tho taking pictures can be tricky one handed.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13078\" style=\"width: 618px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13078\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13078\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mynyecoffee.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"608\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mynyecoffee.jpg 608w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mynyecoffee-421x450.jpg 421w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/mynyecoffee-140x150.jpg 140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 608px) 100vw, 608px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13078\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My NYE day coffee. Collectivo&#8217;s got more &#8220;for here&#8221; cups and they&#8217;re nice.<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_13077\" style=\"width: 574px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13077\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13077\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/marknyecoffee.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"564\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/marknyecoffee.jpg 564w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/marknyecoffee-390x450.jpg 390w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/marknyecoffee-130x150.jpg 130w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 564px) 100vw, 564px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13077\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mark&#8217;s NYE day coffee, mocha really<\/p><\/div>\n<p>One last holiday pic &#8211; Menorah in my kitchen, Sunday night, Dec. 29, 2024<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13081\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/3rdtolastnight.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"574\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/3rdtolastnight.jpg 574w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/3rdtolastnight-397x450.jpg 397w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/3rdtolastnight-132x150.jpg 132w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 574px) 100vw, 574px\" \/><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_13075\" style=\"width: 498px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13075\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13075\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"488\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie-338x450.jpg 338w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie-113x150.jpg 113w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 488px) 100vw, 488px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13075\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">One hand brekkie<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_13074\" style=\"width: 541px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-13074\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13074\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"531\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie2.jpg 531w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie2-368x450.jpg 368w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handbrekkie2-123x150.jpg 123w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 531px) 100vw, 531px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-13074\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Same one hand brekkie, after I cut the egg.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>And here&#8217;s the scones, chocolate chip, the day they were made, Insta version and not. Bet you can tell which is which pretty easy. (Hint: Instagram makes everything square)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13076\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/notinsta1handscones.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"488\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/notinsta1handscones.jpg 488w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/notinsta1handscones-338x450.jpg 338w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/notinsta1handscones-113x150.jpg 113w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 488px) 100vw, 488px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13079\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handscones.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handscones.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handscones-450x450.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1handscones-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Of course I&#8217;m feeling kind of limited by my broken wrist one-handedness, but I&#8217;m looking for the upsides. And musing on which is worse, all the time I spent limited by my knee injury that dragged on for like a year and a half, on crutches, off crutches, on crutches again, followed by limited walking, &#8230; <span class=\"more\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/2025\/01\/04\/looking-for-the-silver-linings\/\">[Read more&#8230;]<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13073,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[211,306,279,263,329],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-ds83473gmail-com","4":"post-13068","6":"format-standard","7":"has-post-thumbnail","8":"category-blogpost","9":"post_tag-accidents-in-the-home","10":"post_tag-baby-boys-baby","11":"post_tag-fatness-crisis","12":"post_tag-feeling-of-impending-doom","13":"post_tag-one-hand-blues"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13068","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13068"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13068\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13094,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13068\/revisions\/13094"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13073"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13068"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13068"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13068"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}