{"id":2949,"date":"2018-02-20T11:04:01","date_gmt":"2018-02-20T17:04:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/?p=2949"},"modified":"2018-02-20T15:22:39","modified_gmt":"2018-02-20T21:22:39","slug":"getting-to-normal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/2018\/02\/20\/getting-to-normal\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting to normal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There a 30+ year-old Bruce Cockburn song called <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/kybkiiAKMOY\">The Trouble With Normal<\/a>, and he sings, &#8220;But the trouble with normal is it always gets worse&#8221;. He&#8217;s talking about apathy and politics, but also how elusive &#8220;normal&#8221; is &#8211; and that&#8217;s pretty much how I feel. Behind on work stuff, not getting enough exercise, not eating right, not doing anything creative. I started moving my recipes to a new Word Press, but it&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/debslunch.com\/new-recipes\/\">hardly there<\/a> yet.<\/p>\n<p>I feel like I just can&#8217;t get caught back up after being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/2018\/02\/13\/travel-its-discontents\/\">out of town<\/a> last week.<\/p>\n<p>Wednesday &#8211; Valentine&#8217;s Day, and <a href=\"https:\/\/nyti.ms\/2C27f65\">Florida school shooting<\/a> &#8211; was my first day back at work, so that was hardly normal. I drove to work &#8211; also abnormal &#8211; because I thought I&#8217;d drive out to the Hawthorne Branch public library to take election official training, after my online class where my remote presenter was coming in person because she couldn&#8217;t get the web conferencing software to work on the city&#8217;s locked down computers. But I didn&#8217;t. After work I took advantage of having the car, and went and bought fancy chocolate and stopped at the co-op. We had baked potatoes and salad and <a href=\"https:\/\/instagram.com\/p\/BfLgIiVDOhL\/\">cheesecake<\/a> and chocolates for dinner.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2951\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2951\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2951\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/valentines.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"650\" height=\"471\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/valentines.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/valentines-150x109.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/valentines-621x450.jpg 621w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-2951\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/gailambrosius.com\/\">Gail Ambrosius<\/a> valentines box<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Thursday we went to dinner &#8211; Mark wanted to take his girls &#8211; me &amp; our student &#8211; out for belated Valentines. We went to a <a href=\"https:\/\/g.co\/kgs\/VktEfn\">small plates place<\/a>, which I&#8217;ve decided makes you tend to eat more because you think it&#8217;s less.<\/p>\n<p>I ordered a salad and pork belly with ramen. Hanne got beef and their mac &amp; cheese, which is spaetzel, Mark got the mushroom pasta, and we also ordered two bread plates and the half chicken to share. I had the below martini and a glass of wine, and we even splurged on dessert &#8211; an apple caramel cake with ice cream. I felt way too overindulged the next day. Here&#8217;s the <a href=\"https:\/\/graftmadison.com\/food#top\">menu we chose from<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2953\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/martini.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"492\" height=\"650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/martini.jpg 492w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/martini-114x150.jpg 114w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/martini-341x450.jpg 341w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 492px) 100vw, 492px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>On Friday, I thought about working at home, but settled for a plan where I went in, did a phone interview, then bussed to the library, and walked home. We had Madison Symphony, a <a href=\"http:\/\/albangerhardt.com\">German cellist<\/a> (I liked him but not the <a href=\"https:\/\/g.co\/kgs\/mj5PCr\">piece he played<\/a>). I made baguette sandwiches for a little pre-concert dinner using a baguette from the freezer, Hanne&#8217;s tomato pesto that we bought for her to eat while we were at ALA, fresh mozzarella, acquired for same purpose, chicken from our doggie bag and turkey meatballs. So a light dinner and I got enough steps, Friday anyways.<\/p>\n<p>Saturday I went to yoga, having missed the last two classes. Groceries, then home to meet with Hanne&#8217;s AFS liaison. I put out hummus made with almond butter and peeled some clementines. After, we trekked out to Bed Bath Beyond in the snow to get better pillows for Hanne.<\/p>\n<p>I made a radicchio &amp; squash risotto for dinner and then we went to see Black Panther, like everybody else that weekend. I bought the tickets at 9:30 in the morning and the last row was the best I could do. We didn&#8217;t walk, unfortunately, since Mark reported that the new snow on top of the old ice was getting slippy and would be worse in the dark.<\/p>\n<p>I liked Michael Herriot&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theroot.com\/an-open-letter-to-white-people-who-are-upset-because-bl-1823050044\">commentary<\/a> &#8211; and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theroot.com\/killmonger-was-wrong-and-ya-ll-know-it-1823134207\">Killmonger was wrong and y&#8217;all know it<\/a>, by Jason Jones &#8211; but hey, I&#8217;m wypipo.<\/p>\n<p>Sunday was maybe the most abnormal of all. We had tickets for a piano recital in Chicago, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mitsukouchida.com\">Mitsuko Uchida<\/a>, that started at 3:00. At 8:30 we left and drove to the train, had brunch in Chicago at 1:30, dropped stuff at the apartment, went to the concert, and I was back on the 6:00 bus back to Madison. Home by 9:30. A 13-hour day trip. Whew.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2965\" style=\"width: 650px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2965\" class=\"wp-image-2965 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/img_7762.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/img_7762.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/img_7762-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.debslunch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/img_7762-450x450.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-2965\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My BLT at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cochonvolantchicago.com\">Cochon Volant<\/a> came with breakfast potatoes, not fries, but was just as huge as this. Thick &amp; thin bacon and avocado. Mark ate the second half for dinner Monday.<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There a 30+ year-old Bruce Cockburn song called The Trouble With Normal, and he sings, &#8220;But the trouble with normal is it always gets worse&#8221;. He&#8217;s talking about apathy and politics, but also how elusive &#8220;normal&#8221; is &#8211; and that&#8217;s pretty much how I feel. 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